i am her. every fantasy, every day dream, every scenario i’ve played in my head… was about me. Because i am her, and i have always been.
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You don’t need to tell people all about your trauma in order for them to respect your triggers.
You don’t need to disclose why something bothers you or hurts you for someone to respect it.
People should just respect that something hurts you without demanding or expecting to know more.
Your trauma is your own personal story that you have control over whether or not you decide to share.
It’s personal and no one else is entitled to it.
Your triggers, however, hurt you and make your life painful and difficult and so it’s necessary that people respect them and are mindful of them.
being known is being loved
“i know your pizza order” “you have freckles on your ears” “you make this face when you’re tired” “you order green tea on a good day black on a bad day” “you always make that face before you try something” “the tips of your ears turn red when you’re angry” “i knew you’d say something” “you must be exhausted to miss the class” “your favorite pie is pumpkin, right?” “i know your phone number, don’t worry” “you miss me, i can tell” “you fiddle with your pens when you’re bored” “you don’t like converse unless they’re high tops” “your favorite cereal is cinnamon toast crunch and you first ate it when you were 8”
being known is being loved.
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